
Talk about not being in Kansas anymore! It’s been over a decade since I last visited New York City, but I had the good fortune to be there earlier this week, just in time to attend (and be a gift bag sponsor for) a benefit party for the New Space for Women’s Health, co-hosted by Ricki Lake and progressive sex toy retail leader Babeland. The New Space is a freestanding center for birth, breastfeeding, and women’s health care, opening in midtown Manhattan in early 2010. Being there was a huge thrill (how could you not get a thrill in a room full of sex toys?)
For starters, it’s not every day that you get star-struck, but whether you’re a fan because of Hairspray camp or The Business of Being Born, a pro-natural childbirth documentary, Ricki Lake is simply stunning in person, and having an opportunity to thank her personally for her work was an honor.

Speaking of being honored to meet famous people, Claire Cavanah (along with her business partner Rachel Venning) is one of the foremost pioneers in the now well-established world of feminist sex toy business (Lunapads and Babeland both started in 1993, a happy coincidence.) Their sex-positive, joyful and educational approach has brought revolutionary pleasure into the lives of hundreds of thousands of women. I am always excited to meet progressive women entrepreneurs, and having a few minutes to swap stories about business and birth with her was a highlight of my trip. In photo: Claire, Jayne (see below) and yours truly!
It struck me at the party that as illogical as it seems, we don’t make the connection often enough between sex and babies. Babeland’s support of the New Space was a refreshing reminder of their beautiful connection. Speaking of which, one of the most interesting people I met that night is a bit of an expert when it comes to both. Jayne Freeman (aka Mamarama) is a witty New Yorker with plenty to say about everything from pelvic floor exercises and natural childbirth to not being strictly truthful about the tooth fairy with kids. Check out her amazing assortment of videos, and stay tuned for her upcoming series about re-heating the family bed post-baby!
Last but not least, I had some great conversations with some of the Babeland staff. Their openness and genuine passion for their work reminded me of thegals here at Lunapads. Thanks for a great evening, ladies, and keep up the good work, everyone!